When Love Turns into a Trap: My Shocking Dating Experience
I was shocked when her husband asked for a threesome. Please keep me anonymous. I’m only sharing this story so someone else doesn’t fall into the same trap I did.
About four months ago, I met a very beautiful woman online. We connected quickly—talking daily, sharing memes, laughing about life. She was sweet, intelligent, and always said the right things. I hadn’t felt this good in a while. After being single for over two years, I finally allowed myself to feel something again.
Eventually, I confessed my feelings to her. She accepted them with grace and even said she’d been waiting for me to speak up. She told me she was single too, and that her last relationship ended a long time ago. So naturally, I believed we were both stepping into something serious.
The Red Flags I Ignored
Even though we talked like a couple, there was something odd: she never wanted me to know where she lived, and she always had an excuse when I asked her to visit. Likewise, every time I said I’d like to visit her, she dodged it.
I once asked her plainly, “Is everything okay? Why are you avoiding meeting up?”
She replied that work was stressing her out and that she was just “not in the mood to socialize” lately. I decided to back off and give her space, thinking maybe she was just going through something.
We still texted daily, so I let it go. Until one night, everything changed.
The Night She Finally Came Over—and Everything Went Sideways
It was a random evening after work. I was home, relaxing with a movie, when she texted:
“Can I come over tonight? Drop me your location.”
I was shocked—but excited. Finally! I thought this would be the night our bond would deepen.
She came around 11 PM. Things escalated quickly. There was chemistry, and we ended up sleeping together. Because of the time, I assumed she would spend the night. But to my surprise, she insisted on leaving.
I was concerned. It was late, and our area isn’t easy to navigate at night. She made a phone call, and minutes later, a man in a sleek car pulled up to pick her. I asked who it was, and she said, “My brother.”
I didn’t question it further.
The Twist I Never Saw Coming
The next morning, I woke up to a sweet message from her:
“Last night was amazing. You were everything I imagined.”
I smiled. Maybe this was the beginning of something real. But then she sent another message that turned my stomach:
“Can I ask you a favor?”
I said sure.
Her next words?
“Would you consider having a threesome with me and my husband? We’ll pay you.”
My world froze.
Her husband?
I asked her what she meant. She confessed—partially. Then she said,“The man who picked me up last night… that was my husband.”
I felt like I had been part of a bad movie. This wasn’t just betrayal. This was a setup. Her husband knew I had slept with his wife—and worse, he wanted to watch it happen again.
I Blocked Them—But They Keep Finding Me
I told them I was not interested. That I felt deceived and violated. I blocked both of them immediately.
But the nightmare didn’t end there.
The woman kept creating new numbers to contact me. Different names. Different accounts. She kept pushing. She kept begging.
And now I’m scared.
Why I No Longer Feel Safe
They know where I live. I’m currently working in a region far from home. My family isn’t around, and I’m the only child of my parents. If they ever found out what happened, they would completely break down. I can’t let that happen.
But I also can’t sleep well knowing people like this—manipulative, sexually exploitative, and deceptive—know my location. The fact that they orchestrated this together makes it even more dangerous.
What I’ve Learned—and What You Should Know
This isn’t just a story about cheating or betrayal. It’s about emotional safety, online deception, and how easily anyone can fall into a trap when you’re looking for love.
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Always verify people before getting intimate. Take your time. Ask questions. Don’t ignore red flags.
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Avoid late-night meetups with people you barely know, even if you’ve been talking for months.
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Protect your space—emotionally and physically. Once someone knows where you live, it becomes harder to walk away cleanly.
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You don’t owe anyone your body, no matter how nicely they ask.
I’ve considered changing my location. I’ve already told a trusted friend at work to be alert in case anyone strange comes asking for me. I’m slowly regaining peace of mind—but this experience changed me.
If you’re reading this and talking to someone new, be cautious. Be intentional. And most importantly, protect your peace and your privacy.
Because sometimes, the people who smile the widest… carry the darkest secrets.
